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What Threatens to Derail Your Dreams?

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I just laced up my shoes for 2 mile run, my first run in two weeks.

I had to stop running for nearly two weeks even though I’m training for a marathon because I pulled a muscle and it hurt to walk . Today I am nearly pain free so it’s time to run.

The marathon is in less than two months and I’ve nearly allowed the injury to the derail my dream of a marathon this year.

What do you allowed to derail your dreams?

I recently shared my book idea with a few friends, including my friends who work at a publisher. One friend recommended that she connect me to her agent. Then she wrote back and mentioned that he related that many of the mainstream publishers have plenty of social media box in the pipeline.

And discouragement. I feel deflated. And I could let that comment, in passing, derail my dream. (Note: my friend believes in my idea and is encouraging me to move forward.)

About a year ago, filled with excitement, I wanted to create a new service offering for my company. And I remember: well-meaning subcontractors encouraged me to simplify and abandon the idea. They felt strongly that last year was not the right time to embark on something new.

In retrospect, their advice was good. But saying not now is not the same as saying not ever. I don’t want to let that “not now derail” my dream forever.

What does it take to derail a dream? Can an injury derail a dream? It could. I could decide to give up after missing two weeks of training. Or, I could rest. I could take time to heal. And I can try again.

Is hearing that there are others are writing books enough to derail my dreams? No way! I have an idea that can make a difference. It’s my idea. I’m only one who can write my book.

Is bad timing a good reason to talk a dream a side forever? No way! A dream deferred is a dream ready to be reborn.

Though there may be pain in running after an injury, I never expected training for a marathon to be pain-free.

Though I may have to advocate for my book to find the right publisher, I will persevere.

And though now may not be the perfect time to execute my dream related to creating a service that can scale, I can keep thinking, keep planning, and wait until it’s clear that the time is right.

My dreams will not be derailed. I may be running more slowly but I am still running.

Tell me something! What threatens to derail your dreams?

Note: I dictated this blog post via voice to text while running one mile. After a mile, I could feel the twinge returning, so I stopped, hoping that tomorrow I may be strong enough to run two instead of one. 

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Ana Canhoto   |   04 March 2014   |   Reply

Great question. I think that I have two main threats. The first one is ‘emergencies’, that is things that come up and are due at very short notice. The second one is other people, as in promising something to somebody else, and focusing on that before I focus on ‘my’ project.

But, please, tell me more about your blog post ‘dictation via voice to text’ process :-)

Becky Robinson   |   04 March 2014   |   Reply

Ana,

Thank you for the note. Re: voice to text, I used notes on my iPhone, then emailed the notes to myself. I had to edit/clean them up because the technology didn’t completely translate in every instance.

John Marcello   |   05 March 2014   |   Reply

No better time than the present…let’s keep moving!

Lucinda   |   05 March 2014   |   Reply

I am easily derailed when I see people already successful… I tend to forget that no one but me has my voice and my experience and that’s what I (and you) bring to the table. Sounds braver than I feel!