The Power of Social Presence

The Power of Social Presence

From Becky:

In the coming weeks, you’ll notice some changes to the Weaving Influence blog and website. We’ve already made one big change – the tagline above: “connecting authors to online audiences.”  Weaving Influence began as a personal blog; it has shifted to a blog and website for my emerging business. You might know that I formed Weaving Influence LLC in February. Since then, I have been gathering and training a powerhouse team to serve the clients of Weaving Influence, and is shifting to a website for the business that will include a team blog, with regular posts from me and various team members. I hope you enjoy this post from Carrie Koens. You can read another team member’s story about how she connected with me and Weaving Influence here. Thanks to the entire Weaving Influence team (Tamara, Margy, Angie, Carrie, and Molly) for being a part of this incredible journey.  

Last month, I found myself sucked into a conversation with a casual acquaintance that I’ll call, “Joe”. Although Joe has been unemployed for some time, as we talked, he expressed a desire to find work that gave him a purpose; in other words, something that did more than just pay the bills.

Since I recently left a job that gave me no personal satisfaction or opportunity to use my skills, I completely understand that desire. And yet, I also realize that sometimes you have to take those pay-the-bill jobs (at least temporarilyuntil you find something better.

New careers don’t grow on trees, and it takes work to reach your goals – but you don’t always have to do it alone. The power of having a total stranger reach out through the internet and not only express the belief that you have potential, but also offer to help you achieve your dreams, is life changing.

This is My Story…

Photo by C.G.Koens

In 2007, a friend in Johannesburg told us about a website called “Facebook“. As we were preparing to return to the States, he thought we might want to use it as a way of keeping in touch with him. I remember both my question, “what’s wrong with email?“, and his response, “Sometimes all you want to say is, Hope you’re doing well’.” True enough – Facebook account created.

Three years ago, I started my blog as a place where I could dust off my writing skills. I used it as a platform (albeit, small) for sharing my stories of personal growth, writing book reviews, and the occasional recipe or political diatribe. It didn’t become an overnight sensation, but it allowed me to build a portfolio of my work.

I made a few online friends who left comments and promoted my blogging endeavors whenever possible. However, by last December I was on the verge of saying “enough” to my online life. I was fed up with Facebook, disheartened by the by the lack of blog traffic, and disgruntled by the prevalent Me Monster mentality of social media.

Photo by C.G.Koens

Molly never fell into the Me Monster category though, and after listening to her gush about Twitter for several months, I decided to give one more social media outlet a chance. By January, @MyBusyNothings was following @mollypg and tweeting infrequently. In mid-March,  I caved to my husband’s request that I switch to a smart phone, and quickly warmed to the idea of Tweeting with a flick of a finger.

On April 12th, @beckyrbnsn sent me a Direct Message on Twitter, asking if I’d like to chat at some point. I was stunned, excited, and anxious, but Becky had done her research before she contacted me. In fact, she started our first phone conversation by announcing that she had been to my blog, and she liked what she read.

It wasn’t until that moment that I realized that the last two and a half years of blogging had not been a waste of time – they had been preparing me to step out and do moreLearning my way around Facebook and opening myself up to the Twitter community had actually resulted in a job offer that would utilize my skills, interests, and abilities.

Bottom Line: Social Media Networking Works

The last I heard, “Joe” is still on the hunt for a job. Just before our conversation came to an end, he asked me if I had any pointers for someone who was looking for a new career. I thought for a moment and then asked the first question that came to mind:

“Do you have a Twitter Account?”

Carrie recently joined the Weaving Influence team as an Implemenation Specialist and Editor. A lifelong fan of Jane Austen, Carrie spends her free time writing about books, personal growth, and financial goals at her blog, Carrie’s Busy Nothings. You can follow Carrie on Twitter @MyBusyNothings.

Filed As:  Social Media, Connections

About Becky Robinson

I am the owner of Weaving Influence and the leader of the Weaving Influence team. We help authors and thought leaders grow their online influence. I am also a wife and mom of three daughters, and I enjoy running, reading, writing, a good cup of coffee, and dark chocolate.

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What People Are Saying

  • Well Carrie… you have a great story. The best advice I can give you is “Watch out for that Becky Robinson.” She’s got dreams and she goes after them. She’s got skills and they make it possible. She’s one of the best Twitter relationship builders I know. She knows how to use social media to make things happen and, after a little prodding in the early years, she’s not afraid to use them. I don’t know you, Carrie, but I know if Becky reached out to you that you have talent and ability and working together you’ll go far. It’s a rocket ride… so hold on!

    • Paul – Thank you so much for the words of encouragement! Becky has taught me so much already, and I can’t wait to see what the future holds. I know it’s going to be exciting!

  • Thanks for your post Carrie, and I’ll second Paul’s comments about Becky; she was one of the first people to notice my own early tweets. Your message was energizing and affirming. With all the talking going on, the social landscape can be really lonely when no one is talking to YOU. Your message reminds me to keep two ideas front and center. First, you have to reach out and get involved. This is like moving to a new town or starting a new job. As the new person you have to participate and let people get to know you. The second point is, you have to stick with it. I have to keep telling myself, “play with persistence”. And now that I’ve heard you say it too, I’m stoked to drive on. Thanks again for the uplifting encouragement.

  • How exciting! I’m so happy for the both of you–and eager to hear more in the future!

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